The same judgment may not be followed from high school to college or even from home to work, but it is still there. I hope people can think about things before they decide to judge a person. Along the same lines as “think before you say”. Most people don't think about why that person is like that, they jump straight into judgment. Changing the way we judge other people could have a huge impact. Instead of judging someone, compliment them even if you don't think it's right in your mind, it might be right in theirs and with that one compliment it could change their whole day. Since that person lacks judgment, they may be able to die blissfully. Once those who stop judging realize that they are no different from the person they are judging, they will realize that we all end up in the same place. Whether or not the headstone is different or whether they had a proper funeral. Everyone is different and you can't change that. People don't realize that once they die, they are gone forever. If they were the person judging others, this is what they would leave behind once they were gone. The person judged will die peacefully, away from all the people who were judging them. People should change themselves into who they want to be, not into who others want to be, to live long and happily