Being ambitious is something women should be proud of. For example, in Dawn Jefferson and Rosanne Welch's article “Ambitious and Proud!,” they both point out “If you're like many women, you probably keep your ambition hidden, worried about being labeled ruthless, even selfish.” , if you talk openly about what you want. But here's a news flash: Having ambitions, and letting others know about them, is essential to a satisfying life, writes psychiatrist Anna Pels, MD, in her insightful book Necessary Dreams: Ambition in Women's Changing Lives” (39). We don't agree with hooks because instead of blaming the system, let's be realistic and talk about what we are able to achieve in the current system. Richard Dorment, the author of “Why Men Still Can't Have It All,” writes: “If you don't want a high-pressure, high-power, high-paying job that forces you to make unacceptable sacrifices in the rest of your life your life , don't take the job. Or find another job that doesn't require those sacrifices.”(716) On the other hand, I agree with Ullman because being successful gives us the choice to be wherever is comfortable for us. In the film “The Devil Wears Prada” (2006) by director David Frankel, Andrea Sachs (Anne Hathaway) chooses to lean and change herself to work for American Runway editor-in-chief Miranda Priestly (Meryl Streep). , but at the end of the film Andrea decides to leave her job because no matter how successful she is, she isn't happy. While Andrea and Miranda were in the car, Andrea said "And if this is not what I want, I mean what If I don't want to live the way you live" Miranda replies "don't be ridiculous Andrea, everyone wants this, everyone wants to be us” Andrea gets out from the car, she rejects Miranda's phone call and answers the phone with a big smile of success and victory on her face