This is because as we get older, there are some things in life that we are not able to do on our own. At some point in life, we need the help of others to get things done. For example, I consider myself an independent individual, but there are times when I recognize that I need help with school work and it is more efficient to complete it in a group. Another thing is that eventually, once we achieve our goals in life, we start looking for stability and settle down with someone. This comes into play as one of the positive outcomes of addiction where you are able to be more emotionally open and help sustain a coexistence with your partner, be it your girlfriend or partner.