10 years of marriage and having children and now I feel like I have accomplished nothing in my life due to supporting my husband and taking care of my children. My husband didn't want me to work; so I had little to no work experience and no money of my own. All my worldly possessions belonged to him. The transition from military wife to single parent at the time left me in a state of depression, for almost 2 years. I'm struggling to get back on my feet, as finding work has been extremely difficult due to lack of skills, daycare expenses, and lack of flexibility with hours. I was so angry at myself and disappointed in myself. Sure, being a single parent comes with many trials and tribulations, however the most refreshing moment I can truly remember is being financially stable enough to purchase my first vehicle. No more asking for a ride, no more asking family for a ride to work, and no more worrying about how to get my kids to the doctor. For many people this is such a small achievement; however, this was one of the most rewarding accomplishments for me at that time in my life. The moment when you can actually afford to cover your needs on your own is extraordinary