“Ought to be” that is. I have to hesitate when I think everyone should intimately understand how the mind works, the ability to find the root cause of superficial problems in a client's daily life. Unfortunately, I have come to understand, with crystal clarity, that people, in general, are not responsible enough to exercise such power. After all, the lies we tell on the outside do less harm than the ones we keep secret. We hate the shadows of ourselves that we see in others. Bringing a person to the point of being honest, with and about themselves, is almost impossible. At every step the Ego protects the self at all costs, even at the cost of