and Mrs. Ramsay have a complicated and ambiguous relationship. While Mr. and Mrs. Ramsay seem to have moments where their feelings for each other seem genuine, there are many moments where the state of their relationship can be called into question as to whether or not they love each other. However, there is a quality in their marriage that keeps them together, a quality that is not talked about. While they may not say "I love you" to each other, their feelings for each other can be seen briefly. Overall, the Ramsays' relationship displays periods of both mutual love and criticism, making their marriage feel like a roller coaster ride, filled with moments of happiness one minute and heartache.