High school students will get married before they graduate, either because they are legally old enough, or because pregnancy will lead them to believe they have no other choice. But in doing so, they confuse marriage with something easy; they fail to realize the responsibilities they have just taken on, nor the commitment they have made. Unlike relationships, it is more difficult and expensive to get rid of marital status. It seems that some teenagers today spend more time fantasizing about their future than focusing on their current studies. It is more exciting to dream about the virtues of being an adult, even if the negative aspects of adulthood are often overlooked from our thoughts. We fool ourselves into thinking that we are prepared for adulthood because we are bored with our life as children. But boredom can also prevail in our adulthood. After you settle down with your spouse, you begin to fall into a routine that you practice every day for the rest of your married life. It would be natural to become bored with this redundancy and look for something new and exciting, such as a new partner. This boredom can lead to adultery, which is often not thought of at the beginning of a marriage. People tend to be self-centered, so the thought of being cheated on is almost never expected. “Why would my husband ever cheat on me?” The answer is simply because he got bored
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